Social Media Women’s Day

According to Worldometers.com today the female population is 49.6% and Male population is 50.4% of Total population of 7,162,119,434 or 7.1 Billion. According to another survey, 60 Billion messages were sent on Face and Watsapp together in 2016 (the verge.com). Even if I consider half of the messages were related to International Women’s Day, total 30 Billion messages must be sent about today. I am one of the 7.1 Billions who interchanged, argued, ignored, discussed, laughed or cried about today’s messages but did not do anything different to make this day Women’s day. One more year has passed by and one more women’s day has gone, but I’m still waiting for the one day when I will really know the meaning of this day.

Below image was actually circulated heavily on watsapp on March 8th, 2017, which made me wonder, “Happy Women’s Day” Really ¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡

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The Long Distance

I’m gazing a ticking watch and for once  I realized 1 minute really consists of 60 seconds and 1 hour consists of 3,600 seconds. No !! do not ponder on, comm’on lets do something else. But why is that my eyes are resting on that phone and the digital watch in it. I’m waiting for him to be back and talk to me. This time I will always have him with me on my phone, but today I’m there, my phone is with me however one on the other side of it, is missing. So that is why is my eyes are rolling again n again but resting on that phone which is lying very innocently and quietly as if it is saying to me that it has always been with me, still why m I gazing it, picking it and throwing it.

Long distance relationships are difficult to be carried for long. But what is that which comes between two people when they are far from each other, is it the long distance which really causes blocks. Is it true that long distance is inversely propotional to Love. I think it’s not the distance which creates blocks but it is we who at different places have different surroundings and we have to live social life in there. We have to do the duty towards the surroundings we live in and at the same time we do not want our partner to change anything between us.

I’m waiting for him to come from office party, I have so many things to tell but after all exertion of party he is very tired and goes to bed. What do I do now, and my phone is again seeing and begging me so that it is not thrown once again.

If this is repeated we think, things are not working out and the relationship weakens. Who is wrong here,

The distance – No, we ourselves chose distance to come in and the prudent decision was taken by both of us

The surroundings – No, we still love each other so much that we are each other’s life and we are not distracted by the surroundings.

Lack of Understanding – No, i understand, he is not changed and I have no doubt of that, I would never restrict him and we have given each other this freedom, we understand the thin line between possessiveness and over possessiveness

Then why is it I want to fight and argue, Not because I’m angry that he has not talked to me but his time which was supposed to be mine was spent at some other place. I’m not angry but I’m confused., which is very evident in my writing.

Is this really a side effect of log distance that my mind has started playing games and because of that I’m arguing. But this has not decreased my love. I will fight with him next day, I will get gift in return. But long distance has definitely not caused any difference. It just requires patience and communication. The more you talk to each other, shorter will the distance be between you. So, pick up phone and do not blame The Long Distance!!

Just For U

I began a journey longtime before,

The reason for it I was not sure,

Until I saw u, I did not feel,

Life is real and not a reel.

Seems I was waiting for something,

Something that I wasn’t knowing,

Until I saw u, which showed new realms,

New Realms with true meaning.

Dancing on the tune, without catching beats

Feeling the touch, leaving the strings

Until I saw U, I cared for the rhythm & prance,

But now I love your non synchronous dance.

Obstinate to Compliant, unacquisitive to possessive,

Weakness to strength, Modesty to audacity,

Until I saw U, Never thought to say,

But now I have to tell, All this is For U, JUST FOR U.

First First…

My first blog islike my first step to school, first step on stage, first step in class, first step in my own birthday party, first step to make friendship, first step to apologize, first step to avoid, first step to college, first step to city unknown, first step in office, first step in relationship, first step sometimes unknown.

I have always been so cautious on my first step, though that caution doesnot always help me to give enough confidence. I have always been so timid that i try to avoid those steps which are usually so called ‘first’ and wait for the final push to start something new.

But then what made me to take up this first step. Actually, I made this blog to make fun of someone and that was the push for me. Then I’ m writing this, though not sure what to write, rather I should say blabber.

But finally m happy that my this first is also over and I have to face one less first which is waiting to come in life.

Essence Of Nature..

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